Today I've been called by the IND. They have told me that they can't accept the birth certificate of your son and your marriage certificate.
You have to legalize this documents by the authorities in your country.
After that the foreign diplomatic missions have to give their permission too.
I don't know how to arrange that in China so you have to look for information by your self on the Internet.
Yes, you need do lieagulization for your certificate. Here is the information for all the agency, you can choose one is closeto you!! they will help you do base on your certificate documents which you sent to IND I think.