Can you help me?

看得头大，要么说纯英文，要么说纯中文。

About taking your family with you for longer than 3 months, it seems to be impossible on your condition.
To my knowledge, the minimum income for referee (only can be family member, actually family here means spouse and their children) should be beyond 1200euro monthly or so (not sure exact amount, should be around that).
But you can invite them for shorter than 3m as long as you can find someone else to be guarantor who has those or beyond that limit income.

Post by c.si
To be honest, I don't know who am I either. phd student Or AIO, 两者不是一个东西 but I'm elther or neither. Doctor in China, Master Degree, come here for a ph.D. The university exact 提供了一份没有工资的contract for me. That's it!

这个真得很奇怪。什么叫doctor in China, master degree?你是学医的？难不成是我们格村的？

怎么现在有这么个合同了？从来没听说过哦。

我也觉得奇怪啊！

谢谢，好心人们。刚下载了中文软件，好不容易能打中文了。以前中文是拷贝。是这样的，偶是小山村的医生，国内生活真的不错。一日，一国际友人说愿帮偶联系出国读搏，全村沸腾。偶也激动。历时近一年有余，偶不报什麼希望时，签证和工作许可同时到了。匆匆一瞥（网上）在荷博士有工资，撇下老公，孩子，义无反顾地跑来了。拿到了学校一份没有工资的合同，傻眼了。欲罢之，又不知回去如何向父老乡亲交待。小山村哪，同志们，希望能理解。总之，这里一会添表是ph.D, 一会是AIO, 偶知道这两者有区别，但目前的混乱偶还无能为力。且偶的签证十月份到期（刚延到十月，第一次只有3个月的有效期，到6月，为此也很头痛）。偶的问题是像偶这种情况如何带家人过来。路过的朋友如能帮上忙的，请出个主意，不胜感激。请不要再提越问让偶越伤心的问题。谢谢。

i think you can go on with your phd, as you've been started it.
first, you may ask your supervisor to get you some money, at least to make you to be able to survive in holland. if you work in hospital or lab, your supervisor has always can make money for his employee.
second, you may apply your family visit you for short time, shorter than 3 months. you can ask your supervisor to be referee. you just need to convice him that your family will leave on due time, which will never cost him anything and any trouble.
thirdly, your may ask any posible foundation to get finacial support. there should some way to make it. but, i myself don't know. you have to ask around, even native dutch.
good luck

Post by xixiyang
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因为荷兰没有所谓的陪读签证,所以,学生身份似乎没有办法申请亲人过来长期居留
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上面这句话什么意思，
不能长期居留？
比如博士读4年，配偶要是申请一起过来了（不管是不是陪读），能待四年吗？

Post by DieLogik
上面这句话什么意思，
不能长期居留？
比如博士读4年，配偶要是申请一起过来了（不管是不是陪读），能待四年吗？

陪读能四年,只要是有一方有合法身份你们又是合法婚姻,你们就可以一直在一起.要是别的身份自己有合法工作也可以要不也一直读四年书.

Post by c.si
谢谢，好心人们。刚下载了中文软件，好不容易能打中文了。以前中文是拷贝。是这样的，偶是小山村的医生，国内生活真的不错。一日，一国际友人说愿帮偶联系出国读搏，全村沸腾。偶也激动。历时近一年有余，偶不报什麼希望时，签证和工作许可同时到了。匆匆一瞥（网上）在荷博士有工资，撇下老公，孩子，义无反顾地跑来了。拿到了学校一份没有工资的合同，傻眼了。欲罢之，又不知回去如何向父老乡亲交待。小山村哪，同志们，希望能理解。总之，这里一会添表是ph.D, 一会是AIO, 偶知道这两者有区别，但目前的混乱偶还无能为力。且偶的签证十月份到期（刚延到十月，第一次只有3个月的有效期，到6月，为此也很头痛）。偶的问题是像偶这种情况如何带家人过来。路过的朋友如能帮上忙的，请出个主意，不胜感激。请不要再提越问让偶越伤心的问题。谢谢。

说实话,我要是你,我现在就不考虑把我的家人接出来.先不管怎么办手续或者你是否能办成,你首先要考虑一家人都在外面吃什么喝什么?你已经说了你没有钱,那你丈夫来能一下找到合法的工作吗?找到工作能支撑一家人的生活吗?孩子如果不够入学年龄上幼儿园也是要花不少钱的.办ID的钱,每月的保险..........这些都是要花钱的!不要头脑发热呀,先要考虑好实际问题.你现在自己的事还是一团糊涂呢,再弄出来家人只会更乱.先把自己的事弄清楚,到底自己是啥省份弄清楚再考虑别的吧.


PS.能理解你想念家人的心情,也知道我说这些会给你打击,但是都是实话请理解.

As i know, there is no difference between PHD(international) and AIO(Dutch). like most people here, that fact you don't get any salary for you work confuses me a little. In most cases, you can get some money because AIO study is seen as a work for the uni.

By the way, if you major is medicine, it may be another case. because the western doesn't value that so much in china.I am not sure about it so much.