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Hi all sisters here, I'm a new comer and have a question to ask for ur kind suggestions: Is that possible for me and my husband (only) to take good care of myself and baby during the last few days and the first month of my baby delivered?

We r considering to take my parents or my parents in-law up here, but it's too much work and suffering for people in their ages to have such a long flight and then look after us if the work is so exausting as many friends told us... So, we would like to knowif anyone here have such kind of expereince to get all these preparation and deliverying issue done well only by her and her husband? Thanks a lot for any reply in advance.

[ 本帖最后由 hamkor 于 2010-2-3 12:55 编辑 ]

我还是觉得有家人照顾比较好!因为谁也说不准生孩子的时候会出现什么状况,另外如果老公要上班的话,就很麻烦,如果不上班,光照顾小孩对你们两个也是一项新的挑战呢,更何况,生完孩子后一开始下床也很麻烦,那就意味着全指望老公来做啦!父母家的话,懂的也多些,另外也可以更好的照顾你和孩子!也可以和老公换个手等!

我现在还不知道，不过打算就我们两个自己应付了，不过我老公会请一个月假

如果父母来不了，也只有自己照顾了，这里很多姐妹也是这样的，人的潜力可以开发的。
如果老人身体健康的话，能够过来帮帮手的话也是一个好办法。如果你从来没有申请他们过来的话，手续就会长一点，你要给自己留一点充裕的时间来准备，比如说护照申请阿，亲属公证认证阿。不过你以生孩子的理由申请他们过来IND应该不会拒绝

:) thank u all above.